Where does my money actually go?
This is the question behind almost all money stress. You see the money come in, but by the end of the month it's gone — and you can't quite pinpoint where it went. The problem is rarely the amount itself, but the lack of visibility: small fixed costs and forgotten subscriptions quietly eat up hundreds of dollars a month on average.
The solution is simple: every month, put all your income next to all your costs, line by line. As soon as you see that 'software and subscriptions' costs $180 instead of the $40 you assumed, you can do something about it. Begrootlab does exactly this: one sheet with income and costs, and per line item what you budgeted versus what you actually spent.